TO ALL MY TRUE AND REAL FRIENDS

There comes a time in life when you feel on top of the world and everything else is under you. The everyday worries seem to disappear, the constant and nagging problems go for holidays, this might be out of sheer delight but everything seems to work out okay.

Friends do come in and play a vital role in this Arena. You may not realize it but they play a significant role in the shaping of our lives. Some go to the extent of playing the guardian role; some literally control our lives to the extent that we cannot function without them,

The extent to man’s weakness reveals itself on his ability to choose friends who are of importance in all aspects of life regarding him/her. In making a choice we tend to stick to a set of rules which govern us on our choice, how well we know the person, how close we are to the person and how much we can gain from the person, most of these aspects usually lead to break ups due to little constraints which hide the guise of friendship and before we even come to terms with what happened we lose our most trusted companions. Funny enough if you put into consideration the causes of the break ups you will realize that they are just silly doings.

Acquiring a friend or creating one takes time but losing one takes seconds so if you have a friend close to your heart, make sure that he/ she stays put there. Show him/ her how worthy he/she stays put there. Show him or her how worthy he/she is and there in will have captured the heart and needless to say will abide by you. Avoid bad friends who are there to suck you up like ticks they are the worst more than vermin. Don’t follow aspects in choosing a friend, follow the heart for it speaks through your soul. Remember that being hurt does not mean the end of the world but rather the beginning of learning and accepting who you are. Share you happiness with those who are worthy. If you don’t concur with me you better stop reading now.

RONNIE

FRIEND ZONING NOT A GOOD IDEA

In many cases we take people who take us seriously for jokers and we take Jokers very seriously hence ruining our lives, ending up making the wrong decisions for the people we only see as right in our faces and hearts but very wrong in reality. This is why I always say that the heart in most cases dictates our mind.

We take the people who have our best interests for grunted, we take men who seriously love us for grunted and we end up friend zoning them. It’s not easy for them. It’s so hard to love someone who doesn’t love you but it’s also true that these people we treat so badly are the same people we go running back to. It’s sad that they are always stretching their arms for us to run right in. They give us a shoulder to cry on, they comfort us without judgments, Girls that guy you are friend zoning hurts each time he learns that you are in the arms of that guy who doesn’t deserve you. Think before hurting a good guy. There are so many hungry lions out there but there is one which may not feast on you. THINK before giving your heart fully.

That’s what you always called him, you said that his love had reached the brim and over flowed like water in a stream.

I warned you again and a again honey but not a minute did you heed my warning

And now you are crying your eyes out because your sweet Ronnie destroyed your life, your studies and your future.

The day you told him he’d filled you up, like a jubilant soldier he jumped up, for that is one thing he really cherished. And with much pleasure he had realized now that he’s seen your bulging tummy. He doesn’t want to set his eyes on you. It’s so sad honey that Ronnie ruined you.

For shame’s sake what made you do it honey? Was it for his stinking money? Despite my telling you that I cared for you, for I had pledged many a time my love for you but you were too blind to see and too deaf to hear a word from me.

Though like a faithful dog I followed you, but all in vain Ronnie destroyed you.

In the same way he wrecked your life while all day long thinking you’d be his wife. I swear I’ll squeeze out his balls, and render out his testicles useless. A pair of pincers will do the job, never again will he use them to wreck anyone for anger boils in me when I see you and remember that Ronnie destroyed you.

All is not lost honey, wipe your tears away and together lets the gears, for you still mean a lot to me honey, together we shall repair what Ronnie ruined, and he’ll see us stroll down the street again hand in hand like two love birds. Forever you’ll be wholly mine. Despite the fact that Ronnie ruined you