TO ALL MY TRUE AND REAL FRIENDS

There comes a time in life when you feel on top of the world and everything else is under you. The everyday worries seem to disappear, the constant and nagging problems go for holidays, this might be out of sheer delight but everything seems to work out okay.

Friends do come in and play a vital role in this Arena. You may not realize it but they play a significant role in the shaping of our lives. Some go to the extent of playing the guardian role; some literally control our lives to the extent that we cannot function without them,

The extent to man’s weakness reveals itself on his ability to choose friends who are of importance in all aspects of life regarding him/her. In making a choice we tend to stick to a set of rules which govern us on our choice, how well we know the person, how close we are to the person and how much we can gain from the person, most of these aspects usually lead to break ups due to little constraints which hide the guise of friendship and before we even come to terms with what happened we lose our most trusted companions. Funny enough if you put into consideration the causes of the break ups you will realize that they are just silly doings.

Acquiring a friend or creating one takes time but losing one takes seconds so if you have a friend close to your heart, make sure that he/ she stays put there. Show him/ her how worthy he/she stays put there. Show him or her how worthy he/she is and there in will have captured the heart and needless to say will abide by you. Avoid bad friends who are there to suck you up like ticks they are the worst more than vermin. Don’t follow aspects in choosing a friend, follow the heart for it speaks through your soul. Remember that being hurt does not mean the end of the world but rather the beginning of learning and accepting who you are. Share you happiness with those who are worthy. If you don’t concur with me you better stop reading now.