Monday 3 February 2014

TEARS DON'T NECESSARILY CONVEY SADNESS



Tears don’t necessarily convey sadness
An intelligent person will open your mind, a beautiful person will open your eyes and a loving kind person will open your heart. Tears at times can be special than smiles depending on the occasion at which you are shading them, We tend to assume that tears only convey sadness that’s not true! I shade tears of happiness when something too good happens to me, something unexpected. We all know that people cry when they are unhappy, it takes a very emotional person to cry for happiness.  These tears are so warm and beautiful.

The saddest moment is when you say bye to someone who helped you stand on your feet after falling when everyone else pushed you to the ground when your knees trembled; these tears are too much they never end, nothing can make you forget someone very dear to you, someone who lifted you up emotionally, someone who looks at you and tell you, “you will be up there”.  These tears change from tears of sadness to tears of happiness when we shade then look up there and smile with a thought of they are watching us from above and they will always watch over us. We know they are better of where they are because of the things we sometimes go through.
The endless smiles we get when we finally achieve that goal we have been struggling to achieve, through hardship and using our achievements to better yourself when actually the person who made you go through hell was helping you better yourself. We should always learn through all kinds of experiences, never look at someone who sends and gives you harsh instructions as a bad person. This person is teaching you how the world works and if you know what you want to achieve at the end of the day, just be patient for the dark days will someday become brighter and it will be time for you to shine. Never treat someone badly because someone treated you badly revenge only breaks you because that’s not the kind of person you are. A kind person no matter how they have been mistreated will always be a happy and person.
A once broken heart is the strongest for a wise person for she uses it to evaluate what is of importance to her therefore not paying attention to what doesn’t build her. A once broken heart doesn’t easily make the same mistakes because we are all supposed to learn from our mistakes.


Sometimes, you got to stand alone and see if you can. We should learn to be independent. Let’s not depend on people otherwise that’s the reason we get disappointed and forget that the people disappointing us are also human.
First step to success is taken when you refuse to be captive of their environment in which you first find yourself because you should always use the bad beginning as a stepping stone to that place you long to be. Hope you get there in one spirit.

5 comments:

  1. When I pray, it means that I am communicating with my maker and I sure believe that he is responding, but since I am the one asking and begging for something, i have to really bow down, feel remorse for what I negatively did and of course weep...All these gestures are part of seeking sympathy from my beloved God, He is the only one that can make me happy enough and make me move on no matter what obstacle placed on my way. He is the only Supreme Being that can make me shed genuine tears. Other tears are just but a tribute to my personal emotions that is only meant to settle certain pains or quench some certain desires…..

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  2. Am so glad that you highly regard your creator. That's the real honest way to make it in life without depending on people. Am happy for u.

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  3. Bush thank God you appreciate your creator. Thats what we need to keep the fire burning.

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  4. Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts. I was better after I had cried, than before--more sorry, more aware of my own ingratitude, more gentle

    Don't be ashamed to weep; 'tis right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. A wounded heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us

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  5. Thank you Swamad for that response indeed tears are a beautiful relief.

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